Kink Community & Cocktails in Dupont
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See you Saturday, Dec 12, 3–6 PM at the Mad Hatter.
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First time? Start hereA queer- and femme-run social for kinky and kink-curious adults. Drinks, dancing, good conversation. First-timers welcome!
Get one email a month when the next munch is announced. Nothing else, and we never share your info.
Once a month on a Saturday afternoon
A munch is a casual, public meetup for people in the kink community at a bar or restaurant. No play, no nudity, no scenes. It's not a dating or hookup event, just a relaxed, low-pressure way to meet people, ask questions and make friends.
Not at all. Kink-curious folks and total beginners are welcome, and so are people who've been around for years. Come as you are and share only what you want to.
Elevated casual, street legal. Dress up a little and have fun with it, but remember it's a public venue: nothing you couldn't wear walking down Connecticut Ave.
The munch is free. Please order something if you're able, and tip the staff well!
Adults 21 and up of every gender, orientation and experience level. Bring a friend if you like.
Yes. No photos, videos or recordings, and no one shares who they saw here. What's shared here stays here.
We'll be on the second floor. There is an elevator, but it is not ADA compliant. Please reach out with any accessibility questions!
Ask first, every time. Ask before you touch anyone or join a conversation that's already going. Only an enthusiastic yes counts as yes.
If someone says no, not now, or isn't sure, accept it gracefully and don't pressure them, even playfully. Anyone can change their mind at any time without explaining why.
Use the names and pronouns people share with you. Racism, homophobia, transphobia, sexism, ableism, classism, body shaming, kink-shaming, and any other form of bigotry are not tolerated here.
Respect everyone's privacy: don't share names or personal stories outside this space without permission. Photos and videos are not allowed.
If something feels off or someone is bothering you, tell an organizer.
Need to reach us? Email dupontcirclemunch@gmail.com or file an incident report, anonymously if you prefer.
Dupont Circle Munch is a social project rooted in building community, friendship and connection. We recognize that this gathering builds on a long legacy of LGBTQ+ community, activism and mutual care in DC, particularly here in Dupont Circle.
We honor those who came before us and made spaces like this possible, and those who did not have the freedom or ability to create spaces like these. That's why this one is open to everyone.
Run by Alixx Amour, Lani and ALXAMR Events.